Writers Ramble

I sat down last night and watched the DVD of Oh in Ohio, it's not a new film -released 2006. It wasn't the funniest of comedy films but it had a nice slant on the whole problems of womens frigidity.

It got me thinking as to how in reality it was where my book started. The main character as it turns out is not frigid at all - when she finally takes the plunge she discovers that she is more than capable of satisfying herself. That when having experiend the pleasure of satisfaction through a series of amusing scenarios she relaxes into life. That when eventually with the right person she is as normal as anyone else.

I do not mean to make light of sexual issues and am hurt by anyone who thinks I am - for the opposite is my intention. I have and will always believe that a good sex life or lack of it is the main stem point of the problems in peoples lives.

A good sex life is a very healthy thing, it not only acts a s a great source of exercise it releases stress and brings a bond between partners. Contrary to belief a good sex life is not necessarily one that requires daily activity. For some (especially in todays hectic life) time and occassion simply do not allow for it - a good sex life is one that satisfies both partners regardless of frequency.